I am very much into my exercise regime now and Qi just nagged at me to go easy. She does not want a "bai kah" mother! Given my vanity, I still want to wear my 4 inches heels, so I will not let myself be a "bai kah".

Qi just told me something which shocked me, she will tear and miss home at first when she goes to St Andrews. I had always thought that she would be happy to go out and see the world, experience life on her own, and going to an ancient university has been her dream. I am excited for her.

I can feel Vincent getting the separation anxiety.